I thought I would spend some time telling you a few bits and pieces about how my pregnancy has been going. I like to think that I have had a reverse style of pregnancy, where it was very tough at the start but then got easier as time went on. Sorry, but this post is long! I was going to break it into two, but trimester 1 is so much longer than trimester 2 and 3, so there was no point breaking them up. Thanks for taking the time to read it!
I actually found out that I was pregnant very early on - just over 4 weeks to be exact! The week I found out I had a few sneaky suspicions. At the time I was training for the 5km event at City to Sea but I was finding my runs so incredibly hard - I was exhausted after running 1km, which really wasn't like me. I did put it down to the fact that I had done a 9km obstacle course the previous weekend, but I knew something wasn't 100% right with me.
|My friend and I after City 2 Sea. Thankfully my run on the day was better than my training runs!|
I ended up Googling my symptoms and being pregnant kept popping up. Technically my period wasn't 'late' but I have PCOS (diagnosed after I got pregnant!), so I never really know when that time of the month is due. But I had cramps and really sore breasts, plus all that fatigue. I didn't think it was true and then eventually did a test... which came up positive. I was completely shocked and I had no idea how I was going to tell B. We were living at his parents place (we were building a new house at the time) and I was in the process of changing careers, applying for jobs and going to interviews. It was pretty funny when I showed him the pregnancy test as he had no idea what the lines meant and looked at me all confused. But when he finally understood he was really happy and excited!
I had a lot of cramping to begin with, which was terrible as all I wanted to do was lay in bed all day. Due to the cramping I had to have a fair few ultrasounds to confirm that I was actually pregnant and the embryo had implanted itself into my uterus. At my first ultrasound the sonographer told me that so far it was a chemical pregnancy and I still had a chance of miscarriage, which was also a concern that my GP had. I ended up becoming convinced that I was going to have a miscarriage and started getting a little depressed. I had another ultrasound at around 8 weeks where it was confirmed that I was 100% pregnant and a little person was growing inside of me.
|My Bump at 8 weeks and it was fully confirmed that I was pregnant and didn't have a chemical pregnancy.|
I already knew that my pregnancy was probably going to be okay as around 5-6 weeks I started to develop morning sickness. Morning sickness is not the correct name as it implies that being sick only happens in the morning and that it should all be over by lunch time. That was not my case. I ended up calling it all-day-and-all-night sickness. For about 10 weeks I felt sick all the time and soon I was throwing up at random times of the day. I was on anti-nausea medication that required me to take a table once every 8 hours. It would provide mild relief for about 5 hours and then the wave of sickness would hit me and I could count down the minutes until I could take another tablet. I ended up being prescribed anti-nausea tablets that they give to people going through chemotherapy! They worked like a treat but at $30 for 8 tables (I took one a day), they were not cheap!
|12 weeks - when I could still see my feet!|
December 22nd was the first appointment with my obstetrician and also the day that I came down with a nasty virus! I had aches and pains, fever and chills, plus a nasty cough. We were also in the process of moving into our house! And lovely Melbourne was experiencing a little heat-wave, with the temperatures being in the very high 30 degrees. Timing was perfect! When you are pregnant your baby is basically a parasite and it sucks all the nutrients away from you. Since I was nauseous all the time I wasn't eating too much and whatever I was consuming would go straight to the baby. It took me a good month to get over this virus. I was no help in moving house or in setting everything up. B had time off over Christmas, which he spent unpacking and playing PlayStation, whilst I spent all my time in bed. My cough was so bad that I ended up straining my ribs, which I thought was painful, until one night when I sneezed and cracked a rib! That was super painful as it hurt to breathe and cough, two things which I couldn't stop doing. It took me 6 weeks to recover from that injury! I also spent very little time at the gym.
My all-day-and-all-night sickness lingered on until I was around 16 weeks pregnant and then life got better. I returned back to gym and was training with my trainer again, along with participating in clinical pilates. I decided not to resume running as the break I had taken whilst being sick was very long and I didn't want to do anything to my body that could cause injury (see how much I have changed!!). In addition, my obstetrician told me not to let my heart rate go over 140 beats per minute, which was hard not to do and made running very frustrating. I did continue to go to RPM and Cycle classes, along with hanging out on my favourite cross-trainer at the gym.
|Gym sessions - keeping an eye on my heart rate at all times!|
I also started to get the dreaded heart-burn/acid reflux, which I hated with a passion. Talk about a way to ruin your day! I have to have Zantac on me at all times! It is by my bed, in our kitchen and in every single bag I use! I also had a couple of weeks where I had a sore lower back, which was super annoying, but thankfully it was short lived.
The one little issue that I have had is I get sore ribs on my right side of my body when I sit for too long. The pain starts at the front, just under my right breast, and then the pain will eventually spread into my ribs in my back under my shoulder blade. I also start to get a numbness in the skin under my right breast too. It is not serious and has been linked to my pectus excavatum (and I will write about this later). All I have to do is lay down or stand and the pain eventually goes away.
|Towards the end of my second trimester!|
This trimester has been pretty uneventful. I find that as I progress with my pregnancy my body really has been adjusting to the change. My back has been feeling fantastic, which I think is due to the hormones in my body loosening all of my joints and ligaments as it is getting ready for birth. My hips, pelvis and back are forever cracking and popping, so I feel somewhat refreshed. I have had a lot of fluid in my body, particularly in my feet, ankles, calves and left knee, so much so that my obstetrician and personal trainer are convinced that most of my weight gain during this pregnancy is fluid! I have learnt that I need to put my feet up more, which isn't a bad thing. But the fluid isn't painful, just annoying as I only have one pair of normal shoes I can wear and I am now down to one pair of runners. On bad days my feet don't even fit in my slippers!
|Trust me - there is a lot of fluid!|
And of course, I have still been going to the gym too! My program is very easy and nothing is too strenuous - it is all about keeping me moving and maintaining what I have. I do 30 minutes of weights twice a week, plus 30 minutes of the stationary bike a couple of times a week. I stopped doing RPM and Cycle as I found that keeping my heart rate down was making the sessions boring and I started to dread the class. But I am not obsessed with exercise. If I am too tired or sore, I don't exercise. That being said, I do find spending time on the stationary bike helps reduce the fluid in my feet. It also gives me an opportunity to read too!
At the moment I am starting to feel a little tired, so I am starting to take it a little easy. But most people find it strange that I am out and about. I like to go out as I get bored at home, plus I have plenty of time to be house-bound when the baby arrives.
|Me at 40 weeks and feeling really, really big! Get this baby out now!!!|
I am now 3 days overdue and it really doesn't look like this baby is going to come any time soon. My bump still sits really high, I haven't dropped and I know that she is very happy in my small and cramped abdomen! Yesterday I was rattling baby toys to my belly and she was kicking away, so I was like "You should really come out and then you can see these toys and we can play with them!" but as usual, she didn't listen and still remains inside.